Being alone on Valentine’s Day might be a problem, but not for you. No, because today we’re giving you the key to success: the personalized storm lighter. Bring out the great seducer in you on Valentine’s Day with a few little tricks.
Be open to meeting
On Valentine’s Day, there’s no way you’re moping around alone at home under a blanket watching Nothing Hill. Sure, Hugh Grant and Julia Roberts are incredibly handsome and well-matched, but don’t despair: there’s bound to be a suitable match for you outside.
Armed with the most beautiful custom storm lighter you’ve ever imagined at your favorite craft shop, go out and win a heart for the taking. It’s your lucky day: how many young women and men are wandering around the city hoping to bump into their future sweetheart?
You need to choose your “hunting ground” strategically: a movie theater would be the perfect place to find yourself surrounded by groups of singles looking for romance. With your personalized storm lighter, you can also try to offer a light to the girls or boys you like in front of nightclubs.
Be careful to protect yourself, however: it’s better not to offer your services to someone who is a bit of a fighter… This article suggests that you favor people who are alone or in groups of more than 3, so as not to leave your friend alone while you chat face to face with your future loved one.
Seize every opportunity
Smokers are sociable, so take advantage of it! A personalized storm lighter lets you help singles you like. Offer a fire, then a warm welcome by warming the atmosphere with the quality of your company. Chat, smiles, glances…
If you’re feeling uneasy, this is where having a customizable lighter comes in handy. Your lighter isn’t just useful: it reflects you. A conversation starter, it’s an object that suits you and follows you everywhere, so don’t buy the first lighter you see at your local bar/tabac.
Spot the signs, avoid the blunders
There are simple rules for flirting without making a faux pas, but you just need to know them and follow them. Once you’ve mastered the personalized storm lighter technique, you should be able to move on to the first kiss (or more if you click!). Here are some of the simplest tips:
- When it’s no, it’s no: be a good sport and never push back.
- Always be positive, don’t complain, or put down your friends.
- Be focused on your conversation: show interest.
- Make him or her feel that you like him or her without overdoing it (it’s all a question of dosage!)
Easier said than done. The hardest tip to master is the last one: how to avoid being too annoying or falling into the friend zone while still making your intentions clear and seducing the single person in front of you?
If you’re shy, just start a conversation. Not only will this put you at ease, but it also shows that you’re not just interested in the person’s looks, but also in what they’re saying and who they are.
On the other hand, whether you approached her with your personalized storm lighter or not, start showing your interest quickly. Look at her a little longer than you would with friends, linger when there is physical contact, etc. Good luck.
